Today’s blog post was originally suppose to be about fear. I’ve been reading Fearless by Max Lucado. A Christian author, he uses stories like Jesus on the Sea of Galilee to exhibit the faith needed to as Jesus put it, “worry not.” This book has been a saving grace as I journey through these life changing decisions.
But I was on Facebook last night, scrolling down as I do ever so often. I watched a few videos because Facebook always has a way of sucking you in. Then I came across a story and decided that sharing this with you all would be more worthwhile then my initial post.
The 92-year-old, petite, well-poised, and proud lady, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o’clock, with her hair fashionably coiffed and makeup perfectly applied, even though she is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today.
Her husband of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, she smiled sweetly when told her room was ready. As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of her tiny room, including the eyelet curtains that had been hung on her window.
“I love it,” she stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.
“Mrs. Jones, you haven’t seen the room …. just wait.”
“That doesn’t have anything to do with it,” she replied.
“Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn’t depend on how the furniture is arranged… it’s how I arrange my mind.
“I already decided to love it … It’s a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do.
“Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I’ll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I’ve stored away … just for this time in my life.
“Old age is like a bank account–you withdraw from it what you’ve put in.”
So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories.
Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
Read more at http://www.beliefnet.com/Inspiration/2003/01/Happiness-Is-A-Choice.aspx#1OHMFUhF9T2PCAuv.99
A Woman in Process