I’m a mess right now, upside down

I’m so sick of being sick. This week has been a trying one for me, from dizzy spells to now a stomach bug. I could tell you where I’m writing this from but that might be TMI. It seems that I can’t catch a break.

I was talking to a few friends; We were doing the comparing thing. You know the thing you do when you look at someone else’s life and feel really bad about yours because you “think” they have it all together.

“We all have stuff, our stuff is just different.” Nobody, no matter the job they have or the money or the looks or the whatever, has it figured out. We all have something that we need to work on or something that is a constant battle everyday.

I’ve always been someone that people confide in, as such, I hear a lot of stories that are just difficult. I know for a fact that some people who pretend to have it together are really struggling. But that might be how they cope with it and you now what, that’s fine.

However you find refuge is your own business. But what you do not have the right to do is make anyone feel anyway about what they are going through. I’ve said this before, if you have to tear someone down to build yourself up, examine your foundation.

We should be helping each other, uplifting each other. Many people ask me why I am so transparent with my blog. It is my life documented because I am in process. I am someone who gained 50 pounds last year, I want to share my journey and hopefully inspire. I have a chronic illness that I will have to deal with for the rest of my life. I have boyfriend issues and friend issues. I have family struggles and career doubts. I’m just like you. We are All in Process.

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